April 26, 2009 at 5:53 am (Baha'i, Entrepreneur, Mother, Verdanta, business, life balance, livelihood)
You’d think that working for yourself would make you extra motivated to get to work. Turns out, that’s by no means a given!
Recently, my business partner (aka, my husband) and I had a discussion wherein we discussed the amount of time I was putting into Verdanta. Specifically, he was questioning how serious I was. I assured him that I was VERY serious, but admitted that I was having difficulty prioritizing my time. Part of the problem was, I still identified myself as a “stay-at-home mom.” The very term implies lots of leisure time, so how could I say no to friends who wanted to meet me for coffee, or talk on the phone, or have me attend just one short meeting?
After our little chat, I decided it was time to start thinking of myself, calling myself, and acting like a working woman. It was a lot harder than I would have thought.
Then a couple weeks ago, my husband was working on the taxes. It was the first time he’s had to deal with a small business tax return, so it was extra painful this year. Afterwards, he mentioned that he wasn’t sure if there was a minimum number of hours you had to put into a business to call it a business. Just to be sure, he suggested I start keeping a work log.
I started to write down each day the different activities I worked on, and the amount of time I spend doing them. Then I calculated a daily as well as a weekly average. I’ve been keeping the log for a little over two weeks now, and I’m averaging over 30 hours per week! That’s pretty darn respectable, considering my full time job as Mom still comes first. It turns out, for a compulsive list maker like myself, if I have a choice between watching TV, and reading a book about web design, I’m going to choose the activity that I can write down in my log. There’s no doubt that I put in an extra 10 hours each week just by choosing log-worthy activities over pure leisure.
This was just what I needed to kick my butt into gear!
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April 10, 2009 at 11:15 pm (Baha'i, Verdanta, audiobooks, business)
After I received the feedback from the recording engineer, I made some adjustments, and started over. To date, I’ve recorded and edited the first 30 pages of Advent of Divine Justice.
Last week, I asked my toughest critic to take a listen to my latest recording. I got a call from him later that morning. He said, “It sounded really good. The pacing was good, there was no background noise in the silences, and you didn’t over-emote, ” which was something he had pointed out in a much earlier version.
I then sent if off to the recording engineer again, who said that from a recording standpoint, it was good.
So. Now that recording engineer has OK’d it, and my husband has put his stamp of approval on it,
I’m wondering if there’s anyone else out there who would like to be a test subject and take a listen? I’ll take the first five people who are willing to listen carefully to what I’ve done and offer their honest, carefully thought out opinion. (Specific likes, specific dislikes, suggestions…)
If that sounds like something you’d be interested in, don’t delay! Contact me today!
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April 8, 2009 at 5:23 am (Baha'i, Career, Faith, Service, Verdanta, audiobooks, business, life balance, volunteering)
In a recent blog, I was conflicted because I felt like one area of service in my life was competing with another. It didn’t help when my beloved ABM (Auxiliary Board Member) reminded me that the 4 core activities are THE most important thing we should be working on right now.
Well, as of today, with the help of my ATC (Area Teaching Committee) Secretary, I’ve offloaded a significant portion of my responsibility. I will continue to support the core activities through tutoring, teaching, etc…, but I will do it within clearly defined time slots. (A discipline issue on my part.)
But the biggest update for me is that I’ve finally uncovered the one detail that I missed when I originally wrote this blog entry: if I weren’t working on Verdanta, I would be working somewhere else, and it probably wouldn’t have ANYTHING to do with the Baha’i Faith, nor would it be as flexible or fulfilling as Verdanta.
It’s all going to work out just fine. I knew it would. Didn’t you?
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